Two Players, Same Skill, Completely Different Games

Picture two players. Identical shooting ability. Identical speed. Identical basketball IQ. Put them in the same pressure moment, game on the line, and one takes over. The other disappears.

The difference isn’t talent. It’s confidence.

It's built through habits, preparation, and repetition. Similar to the work that you put towards improving your jumper and your handles. The same mental prep work that you put towards understanding your playbook.

Two Types of Confidence

Most players only work on the external (physical) component through reps, practices, skill development, and workouts. The stuff that appears on stat sheets, social media, and highlight reels.

But it’s the internal component, the voice in your head that you need when the game is on the line and the pressure mounts.

Great players need both. A player who puts in all the physical work, but beats themselves up mentally isn’t ready for the clutch moments. Neither is the player who is great at talking themselves up, but doesn’t put in the physical effort to back up their words.

Truly confident players trust both their work effort and their mindset.

Traits of a Confident Player

Confident players take good shots without hesitation when they are open. They make quick decisions with and without the ball rather than overthinking or freezing. They communicate with their teammates and coaches and lead by example. They compete with the same level of intensity and passion whether they are up 20 or down 20, and when they make a mistake, they let one bad play be one bad play; they don’t let it snowball into multiple plays.

When you watch the best players at any level, you will notice how fast they move on from a missed shot, a turnover, or a defensive error. They have the confidence in themselves to make the next play a positive one.

Your Inner Voice is Your Head Coach

Imagine a teammate or teammates who call you out for every missed shot or turnover, all game, every game. It would eat away at you and you likely wouldn’t put up with it for long. Unfortunately a lot of players let the voice in their head get away with it when they shouldn’t.

Changing your mindset takes practice, the same as any on-court skill. The question is, how do you work on it and are you willing to put in the same amount of time and effort.

Phrases such as:

“I always miss free throws”

“I can’t guard this guy/girl”

“I’m not good enough to play at this level”

“What if I mess up?”

Need to be turned into:

“I’ve made this shot thousands of times”

“I’m going to make him/her earn every single point”

“Coach picked me for a reason and I have put in the work to earn my time”

“I got this”

Rather than focusing on the negative, focus on the preparation and effort you have put in which are things you can actually control.

Building Up Your Confidence Bit By Bit

Just like the range on your jumper, building your confidence is a process.

1. Fix your self talk by writing down three key phrases that you will say to yourself when the self-doubt starts to take over. Say them out loud to yourself multiple times each day (even when you aren’t on the court) so that they become second nature. Focus on your strengths not your weaknesses.

2. We talked about visualization in a previous article. Use it to mentally walk through big moments before they happen.

3. Surround yourself by people who motivate and elevate you and believe in you and separate yourself from the ones who bring negativity to your game and mind.

   
   

Remember…preparation builds confidence, confidence improves performance, better performance reinforces confidence and that confidence inspires more preparation.

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